Since my daughter has always loved going to school, we never really considered the pros and cons of homeschool education vs public school education until a couple of years ago.
I have always been in awe of the moms who homeschooled their kids, but never really considered it a viable option for our family.
Right before we made the move to Burbank for acting, I discussed schooling with my daughter’s manager. He was emphatic about keeping her life as normal as possible. And in his mind, that meant keeping her in public school.
He recommended Burbank for its good schools and proximity to many studios.
While trying to find a place to live, I checked the ratings for elementary schools to try to find a good one. We rented an apartment that put her in a top-rated elementary school in Burbank Unified School District.
My daughter loved going to school there. And her second grade teacher was absolutely amazing. She thrived while in this class, and leaving early was never a problem.
While in the early grades in elementary school, the teachers did not seem to mind if I took her out early for an audition, or out of school for a job. She was a good student and well-behaved, and it was easy enough for her to make up the work.
But as my daughter advanced in school, it became increasingly difficult to take her out of school for auditions, coaching, events, and jobs. Some teachers complained when I picked her up even 5-15 minutes early!
And making up the missed work and projects became more difficult as she advanced from one grade to the next.
Some teachers are not flexible about homework in public school, and there is often a lot of it. This makes the whole job of acting extremely difficult for a young person.
But my daughter chooses to stay in public school. She does not want to leave her friends there. She is very involved in her school and loves the school activities. She looks forward to her 6th grade graduation this year.
Staying in public school has resulted in some missed auditions, missed acting classes, and missed jobs, and in the last couple of years,we have had to de-emphasize her acting a little so she could focus on her studies.
But being involved in school activities and doing well in school are important to my daughter. And she wants to get into a good university.
As her parent, one of the most important things to me is my daughter’s happiness. As long as she continues to be happy and do well there, we will keep her in public school. We know she has the rest of her life to work on her acting.
So, what is the parent of a child actor to do?
Is homeschooling a good option?
More and more young actors and their parents are going the homeschooling route, and it has some real benefits. Homeschooling has much more flexibility, but it also takes a lot of dedication and discipline on the part of the parents and the children.
So what are some pros and cons of homeschool education vs public school education for you and your young actor?
Some benefits of homeschooling over public school for children pursuing a career in show business are:
- Greater flexibility for auditions and jobs as well as activities and vacations.
- A shorter school day so there is more time for activities and auditions each day.
- More focus on school work instead of time wasted in classroom management.
- No “homework“ at the end of the school day.
- Teacher-child conflict is not an issue.
- Teaching time is applied effectively so your child can work longer on weak areas and move ahead in strong areas.
- You can choose activities, topics, and projects to blend into your child’s educational experience.
- Exposure to negative influences of other children can be minimized.
Some disadvantages of homeschool education compared to public school education:
- Less opportunity to meet and interact with other children.
- Less chance for involvement in school-related activities such as sports, dances, etc.
- Children miss typical public school experiences, good or bad.
- It is more time-consuming for parents.
- Parents and children must have a great deal of self-discipline to get the work done.
- Parents often need a greater knowledge of the subjects being taught.
- Parents are responsible for making sure their child masters the required curriculum.
- Parents need a more flexible schedule to supervise the child’s work or to take them to special classes for homeschoolers.
- There is less exposure to various races, cultures, and religions which is part of a child’s education.
- Parents often have more paperwork and bookkeeping related to the child’s education.
Other things to keep in mind:
When auditions take several hours out of a child’s afternoon/evening, and there are also acting classes, coaching, audition preparation, or other activities, there may be little time left for completing homework.
If teachers are not flexible about homework, the result is that work is done hastily, or the child sacrifices sleep to complete it. In either case, it can result in added stress for the child. And neither of those are healthy for a child.
If school days are missed for jobs, getting assignments to take for the child to do with the studio teacher on set and making up missed work can be difficult.
For homeschooling, there are now online programs, greatly simplifying the parent’s job in teaching the child. And there is still a teacher who can be contacted for help when needed.
There are also charter school programs where children can go in for a few hours several days a week to work with a teacher and also have the chance to be around other children. There is a teacher to help with problem areas.
If you have some special skills or teaching abilities that you can share with other homeschooling families, you can join co-ops where parents alternate teaching a small group of kids.
This allows your child to be around other kids and have more varied learning experiences. It also frees up time for you to do your own work.
There are also now large homeschooling communities all around the country, where homeschoolers and their parents meet together for activities and share valuable information, online and in person.
But still, there is something to be said for the whole experience of public school education. With all its flaws, it still provides a common experience that teaches valuable life lessons that may be missed in homeschooling. Many children do thrive in the public school environment.
Certainly, the decision for a homeschool education vs public school education is one that must be made based on your own personal beliefs and on what works best for you and your child.
You can find additional information on homeschooling in the state of California at the site for the HomeSchool Association of California.
Be sure to sign up for Your Young Actors Newsletter for more discussions on this and many other topics and for tips on helping your child pursue a show business career while still enjoying a “normal” life.
Debbie Sikkema
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Gareth@Maths Tutor
May 22, 2009 at 9:32 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
It is hard finding the balance for your child. The other option is good state education and then use a private tutor at home – then you get the best of both worlds.
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October 17, 2009 at 11:34 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
Hi, it is necessary to prioritize everything that is can help for your child’s development. But you should prioritize the most important of these all. The studies of your child should take the first priority than the other.. Thanks for this article..
Mary@Child Rocking Chair
November 6, 2009 at 9:52 pm (UTC -8) Link to this comment
How interesting! I have never quite looked at home-schooling from this perspective. I always thought that child-actors had private tutors on site for them to balance both acting and school work. Both are important, however do not forget to consider your child’s preference of where he or she wants to attend school.
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February 13, 2010 at 8:44 pm (UTC -8) Link to this comment
Over the last ten years, the number of home-educated children in the United States and territories has doubled. With the broadening number of families opting out of public or accredited private or parochial education, states have made moves to ensure standards through passing new laws. While legislators may have had good intentions in seeking to monitor homeschooling families, they have created a patchwork of regulations that often saddle parents significant new compliance responsibilities. As new laws are confronted by tests of their constitutionality, families should monitor organization and other news sources for changes that may affect them.
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February 24, 2010 at 10:30 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
It’s never to late to start acting!
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April 28, 2010 at 10:33 pm (UTC -8) Link to this comment
Its also accepted here in my country, the advantages of home schooling. Thanks for further discussing it here.
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June 23, 2010 at 10:37 pm (UTC -8) Link to this comment
Although this seems a little naive. I don’t like the idea of letting our children work while going to school. For me, if they love studying then let them be and let them make their own careers in the future. Acting is a very profitable job indeed and there are these fame, glamour and a lot of positive things. But still our children’s happiness is at stake, so let them decide for themselves on where they want to focus and let them know that we are on their side whatever plans they have in mind.
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June 30, 2010 at 9:59 pm (UTC -8) Link to this comment
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August 12, 2010 at 10:14 pm (UTC -8) Link to this comment
It is very hard for child to manage both side,then you have to provide her a home tutor so she can manage both the side very well.
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August 14, 2010 at 11:59 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
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September 3, 2010 at 2:31 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
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September 6, 2010 at 10:30 pm (UTC -8) Link to this comment
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September 27, 2010 at 3:53 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
Very appreciative blog posted, each and every thing explained is very fine. We have a daughter and at the age of three we admitted her for a home school and now she is seven and she is in a public school, we didn’t find any problem, and i can say in home school she learns much more..
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November 2, 2010 at 2:56 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
I think both type of education are best only to give proper attention toward kids. It depends on parents and teacher of a kid, that how they were molding, give proper education.
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November 8, 2010 at 12:48 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
Home-schooling and regular public schooling each has advantages and disadvantages. One may offer a more controlled environment for your child, while the other may expose him or her to a world of ideas you could not possibly imagine.
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November 9, 2010 at 3:48 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
The main disadvantage of homeschooling (in my opinion) will be the lack of socialization by your children. Not being able to learn with friends, and not being able to associate and congregate with other kids of the same age could lead to some developmental problems.
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November 12, 2010 at 12:28 am (UTC -8) Link to this comment
In my opinion home schooling has some advantages and disadvantages too… Talking about its advantage, in a large classroom setting, even the best-trained teacher is incapable of giving the individual attention to help student, parents have to devote much more time to their children. And talking about disadvantage the amount of sacrifice it takes, physically, emotionally, and financially. Time is needed to prepare and teach lessons, organize outside activities and field trips, and schedule opportunities for the home schooled child to nurture his friendships and develop his interests.
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